Look at this shit (love)

love

   [luhv] Show IPA noun, verb, loved, lov·ing.

noun

1.

a profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person.

2.

a feeling of warm personal attachment or deep affection, as for a parent, child, or friend.

3.

sexual passion or desire.

4.

a person toward whom love is felt; beloved person; sweetheart.

5.(used in direct address as a term of endearment, affection, or the like): Would you like to see a movie, love?

Ok ladies in gents I was doing some research and came across this definition via dictionary.com. I have to adress the third definition. Man this is the shit that get people killed or make people commit suicide. If you don't get nothing else out this blog here this, SEX DOES NOT EQUAL LOVE. The third definition or the practice of such will lead you to a world of hurt, hard times, and a large number of sexual partners trying to figure out what love is. I have seen so many fucked up interpretations of love its crazy. MONEY DONT EQUAL LOVE either. This word is so over used and so misunderstood. I am guilty of misuse of this word or saying it simply to get what I wanted in my past . I have seen first hand how this is dangerous. I actually have a scar to prove it lol. I believe to truly know and experience love we must first love ourselves. We must have our own best intentions in mind. If you don't love self you cant love nobody else period. Love defines itself thru action and mere words dont equate love in my book. Don't get fooled

Isolation

I am a fan of Robert Greene. I admire the knowledge as well as the way he structures his pieces. In 48 Laws of Power for each law he states a reversal of this law as to where the practice of such may not play in your favor. Isolation is one of those things that can help and hinder all the same time. I am a sociology major and I tend to look at things at a systems level. I like to analyze how all part effect the other. The sociology definition of isolation is :  a lack of contact between persons, groups, or whole societies. Sometimes our friends and families can blur our vision and lead us to make decisions differently then we originally planned . The benefits of isolation for me are simply clarity and the chance to analyze situations minus distraction. My mother and family dont think its a healthy practice. The downside of it that I have been known to get so far into my  head and become consumed with my situations that I shut off the world and take a me against the world approach. I guess the cliche all things in moderation is the safest approach to take with isolation.

Patience

Patince is a hell of a concept. We all know the cliches that patience is a virture, or good things come to those who wait. When i was becomining a MM I got so sick of the term wait with patience I wanted to scream everytime I heard it. I have two issues with patience. I am realistic and logical enough to understand that in order to truly achieve success time is needed. The question I never get a answer to is what do I do in the present? In the present struggle where does my patience help me? In the present patience dont pay bills patience dont feed kids patience dont take away the stress of daily life. What i dont understand secondly is who knows what my patience will actually going to play to my advantage? What if I play by the rules be humble be patient and still lose? Then what did I gain from patience? Another life lesson another emotional scat?Something to build on for future battles? I believe in time I will completely grasp the concept but its still growing on me .

Pep Talk

If you dont encourage yourself then how can you expect others to support. There is a thin line between winning and losing.There is a thin line between being confident and being cocky.sometime what others see as being cocky I see as the necessary level of confidence needed to succeed.I believe i am the best even when i dont feel i am the best i wont tell you lol. I believe it up to us to believe that we can do whatever we think we can do. I am the best cause god made me with purpose and as long I am breathing I am able to be successful. Compliment yourself build yourself up love yourself cause if you dont nobody else will. Give yourself daily pep talks and reminders of you goals and expectations and settle for nothing but the best for yourself. Also demand what you expect of yourself from those you choose to keep around you. The best you makes those around you better. We can benefit from aa daily pep talk.

oppurtunity

I am a believer that all things happen for a reason. I believe even a series of unfortunate events could be the test you need to prepare you for the greatness you are going to achieve in your immediate future.Sometimes the things we pay little or no attention to is the opportunity we need and least expect and meed. Be observant all things going on around you. Somethings you only get one shot at dont miss out .

Not me

Scarface said all i have is my balls and mybword and i aint breaking em for nobody. Classic line and something we should all practice. Some call it morals some call it values some call it the code whatever you recognize it as just stay true to it. I do alot of things alot of which im not proud of and pray my kids never do. In my years of life i can say i dont do wrong by those i consider to be solid. One thing i learned is that every situation you endure has a lesson attached to it its your job to catch it.I am alot of things but a snake a fake a hypocrit im not. I do and have done alot of questionable things but never will i bite the hand that feeds me or stab a nigga in the back for personal gain. To be honest i rather work wit you learn how you got your success and add a ferg twist and prosper with you . I am alot of things but anything other than solid thats not me i face my flaws and accept them and work daily to conquer them. Anything other than real sorry cuz thats NOT ME !

Random shit

So everyday you do the same shit yet you complain. Nobody really takes you serious and your next move is already understood. Do i feel sorry for you nope i dont . It kills me to see the evolution of people i care for go backwards. If you have no drive and no ambition you will not be alive merely existing. That is a scary thought to be ust simply here with no purpose or direction. No meanigful contribution to society in any shape . I wanna see everybody prosper i wish you all wealth and prosperity but i cant do shit for you if you dont want better for yourself