Circumstances

Sometimes circumstances are beyond our control. The circumstances we can control we must not take for granted. The minute we do we become victims. The circumstances that arise and seem chaotic really can be managed simply. All variables that you can control and disclipline is the key.

Really

The reason I once loved you so much is no longer the case. Politics and fame is all the craze no real reverence for the craft at all. Microwave process yet we wonder why nobody is running to join us. We do afew things to make ourselves feel but no real out reach yet we say this is all about charity. I question the passive district we be become and you villianize me and stunt our growth for years to come .....

Cold world

Its a cold world we live in when once uppn a time wholesome folks only motivated by dividends or things that only tend to benefit them. Morals values loyalty and friendships must take a backseat caise right now all I care about os ensuring that I eat. No care in the world bout my fellow man if they aint doing for me they ain't doing for me they have no purpose in this plan. After it's all said and done what u value most is a loyal friend....

Self control

Self control can save ia a ton of mistakes. Simply saying no or walking away can keep your stress level down. The lack of self control can be the demise of anyone. Dad always told me think before you act...

Pro-Self

There is a difference between being selfish and one being pro self. There is nothing wrong with lending a helping hand but one must draw the line somewhere. I can only be of assistance to you if I in right relations with myself. The more intrest I place in learning and truly knowing me the better off I will be. When you dont do as others believe you should then they label you as selfish. The reality is if they were pro self then they wouldn't always need you to make sense of things on their behalf. Being pro self should be priority for all of us the best me should promote and require the best of all those I encounter. If me being pro self saves me money headache amd drama amd you still see it as selfish then maybe I was an enabler to your bs amd you should begin to take steps to become pro self...

ideal

Ideal can be defined as the ultimate object or aim of endeavor. Ideal is it. Ideal is what perfect is for you. So i pose the question, as it pertains to relationships how does one discover what is ideal? Its like a social experiment everyday to maintain a healthy relationship. No two days will be exactly the same. How can a relationship be ideal if it is forever evolving on a daily basis? True as in any experiment there will be constants that never change which give you a steady foundation from which to build but those can change sometimes too. Ideal or perfect or whatever you believe to be best suited for you could be the very things that makes me not wanna be around you. Do couples that survive in fifty sixty year long marriages begin to adapt the others ideals? That would seem like the only logical answer to have a similar seidea of what ideal is and work in unison to achieve the same goal. Heres whete this concept and defition gets tricky for me and end with one simple question How can i be the ideal mate for you if i have yet to achieve the ideal me ? Just something to think about

Ijs

I hate when people make excuses and justify their own stupidity. Just because I don't choose to be involved on ya craziness doesn't mean I am judging you just means I don't care tp support you and your bs. Having my own opinion on the way things work is not a judgment. Justifying bs by blaming others will only stunt your growth and trust me sometimes it leaves scars