I Remember ..........

I remember when regardless of what our lives were like our bond is something that could never be taking for granted. I remember a time when you word was the most solid of all folks in my world. I remember when whenever I needed you you never let me down. I remmber a time when use to eat steak drink good have the funniest talks. I remember getting wasted getting lost and sleeping in the spider man bed lmao. I remebe experiencing nothing but laughter love and good times. I remeber hotels southern hills and all the good times. I rekember you being special to me and being the realist bitch alive . Will such memories ever return to reality or is the memories all I got to hold on too.............

Social networks vs Reality

Social networks have become a thorn in my side . Certain think certain things are pointed at them or about them and all hell breaks lose. Lets be rreal we all know that individual thats interrnet life and real that have nothing in common. Mind yo biz and let me do me and if i @ you its for you otherwise look and keep it moving. If it bothers you that much delete me . The reality I live in is fonsitent across the board. If i am down it shows if im up it shows. I hate the fact that I have to censor my thoughts for the sake of other peoples insecurities. Social networks dominate the minds of several folks to the point they believe all that they read and quickly pick up the phone and include others. The fact that i know niggas real life makes me simply laugh at them and keep it moving. Women lie men lie and I believe all social networks is a fukn lie . I think that social networks are drama central and have altered the lives of some folks that the live they life thru social media that the lines of reality are so blurred . I wont be surprsised in the future if mental health facilities provide inpatient treatment as a result of the mess promoted via social networks. Real life doesnt take place on facebook or twitter etc. Social networks are what you allow them to be dont let them become your reality.

Cowards & Hypocrites

cow·ard

a person who lacks courage in facing danger, difficulty, opposition, pain, etc.; a timid or easily intimidated person.

 HYPOCRITE

1

: a person who puts on a false appearance of virtue or religion

2

: a person who acts in contradiction to his or her stated beliefs or feelings 

These two words are two things I pray I never become. First off my daddy nor my mama is a coward therefore its outside of my genetic make up to be either of these. Lets be real we all know somebody that is always the victim. The person that does shit but the minute you address them or call them out on their wrongs they wanna judge you for the manner in which you respond to they fuk up. Anybody that is timid or easily intimidated need to run away from me. Seriously I don't bite my tongue and I can care less what you think of me as long as you respect me for being me and not being afraid to speak my mind we good. You don't have to understand me or agree with my ideology . I hate to hear some people complain about things that they have full power to change.I hate those that crumble in the face of adversity and jump ship. Now hypocrisy is kind of tricky cause most hypocrites have a way with words and are usually intelligent and well with words they can turn you into one of them if you not careful. When you initially meet a man or women all I have to go off is what you tell me. This initial encounter allows me to develop a opinion. Its important to know yourself and your own limitations to avoid hypocrisy. Its important to establish beliefs and values that no one can make you waver from. If you dont stand for something you will fall for anything. No need to present false appearance cause in time something or someone will expose you for what you really are. I could be wrong but contradictions sound like lies to me. Life happens and somethings change but your entire being shouldn't be altered instantly. In closing there is no role, room, or need for a coward in my path.As far as hypocrites you guys humor me but I good without you too. If your words and your actions don't add up you just may be a hypocrite. Luckily for some its not too late to stop being cowards and hypocrites but then after you are exposed you lose your validity regaining it can be a lifelong task but that's another blog for another day.........

Is chivalry dead and if so who killed it?

Day in day out i hear my female friends complain about the treatment they receive from males. I read studies and articles that say the same thing. I disagree with chivalry being dead but I do acknowledge a decline but it is not dead at all.
CHIVALRY

1.

the sum of the ideal qualifications of a knight, including courtesy, generosity, valor, and dexterity in arms.

2.

the rules and customs of medieval knighthood.

3.

the medieval system or institution of knighthood.

4.

a group of knights.

5.gallant warriors or gentlemen: fair ladies and noble chivalry.


Once upon a time chivalry was a must. In the old days I would have been alone because for a long time I shunned chivalry simply because of past heartbreak. I vowed to never do anything extra until a women proved her self worth of such. Funny thing is it actually isn't extra at all just simply what you do when you genuinely interested in a woman. Courting was a good practice that we as a society have deserted. In the courting stage chivalry was what set you apart from the rest. Alot of us lack communication skills which makes chivalry hard some of us have no knowledge of chivalry therefore can't be expected to practice that which we don't know. I am going to be fair so don't go crazy on me ladies I am going to address the males in a sec but this part is for you all. Historically woman have always fought for equality. In the last few decades there has been a shift in the thought process and belief system in our society. Some gender roles have changed and along with it a new culture has emerged. What is this culture I speak of? Its the culture of MISS INDEPENDENT. The ultimate self reliant, unstoppable, woman that needs nothing or no one. I am a fan of a women with ambition, ability, and that is confident in her abilities. There is always a limit that must be imposed on anything to achieve success. Some of you are so independent that you become unapproachable in a sense. There is also a portion of you independent women that are so consumed with self and miss out as a man attempts to be that chivalrous knight in shining armor that you say you want and deserve. There is also a portion of woman who set the bar so low for getting there attention that chivalry is not needed nor would it be understood. Ok now on to me and my fellow males. I cant peak for all but I know that many of us refuse to do any more than necessary to get where we trying to go. A bustdown wont get treated as wifey material and vise versa. But brethren if you used a bit of chivalry she would be easier to bust down sad but I got to be truthful. We as males have to make sure that we don't sell ourselves short by simply accepting whatever the woman wants to give us. If we desire a classy lady we must carry our self even in a manner that exhibits more class than we expect them too. We must hold our self to a standard that would make chivalry the bare minimum and a mandatory practice in our daily lives. Now on to the murderer of chivalry. I am going to be brief and bullet these out because this is getting long but stay with my cause this going to touch all of us but if we know the problem we can find the solution so here we go. 1.The lack of fathers and positive male role models to observe. Its hard to do something you were never taught. 2.Ladies not making us step our games up in order to enjoy they company. A man can only do what you allow him to so either stop settling or stop complaining and learn to like the treatment you getting cause you the fool that allows it. 3.SEX SEX SEX!!!!! We live in a sex driven society. Sex is everywhere from advertisement, to movies, to everywhere we turn there is some sexual reference being made. I say this to say sex is so dominant in our society and we all have I am just trying to get mine attitude that there is no room for chivalry if all we want is sex. Define what is acceptable for yourself set standards and stick to them. Chivalry is far from dead and if we tweak a few things we can all ensure that it never dies but in essence becomes a standard for generations to come.

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Dont have a title simply a rant. The main folks playing innocent is the biggest crooks. Maybe your recreational drug usage impairs your memory idk but its funny how in one sentence lie to me twice and still expect me to be a concerned friend and offer advice and support. Not! Some people still have a notion that allows them to operate there life with no regard to the way there behavior effects others . The second you call them out you the bad guy and they the victim. I have made a pledge to myself to boycott bullshit for the rest of my days. Bulsshit being to me anything or anyone who is not moving in the sme direction as me and woking to obatain growth wealth and success. Dear you as much as I love you I hate you at times and until you can keep it 100 at all times not only when it stands to prove your innocence or the guilt of another party I will take all words you say with a grain of salt. You exhibit all the characteristics that you say you depise and go thru great lenghts to justify your methods sorry you just as wrongs as those you speak of. To thyself remain true. I dont even know if you grasp such a concept but o well I do and I aint breaking my balls for no one. Sad to see you now from what I know you can be smh

No repeats

One of my biggest pet peves in life is repetitive and redundant shit. Check this out life is like a good book. Each day is like a chapter being written. Never have I ever read a book with two chapter six. I say that to say live and let die. The past is the past for a reason leave it there. Ex's are ex's for a reason leave them there. It is so counterproductive to growth and progress to repeat things that didn't work. I hate to repeat conversations or situations it gets me nowhere. Insanity is defined as doing the exact same thing repetitively and expecting a different result. No need to repeat shit especially stupid shit then complain. Continue to write new chapters and progress don't repeat things and if you feel you must don't repeat them to me or in involve me in the repetitive bs.

War

Wars are fought daily. Not all wars are fought with guns and tanks tho. Some of us have wars brewing within ourselves. The war can be as small as making a decision or as big as whether or not to do something you know you shouldnt even tho it may feel real good. Sometimes winning a war is fufilling but the damage and chaos left in its wwkeis irreversible. Nobody wins a war. I dont know if total destruction of a person or an ideaology is worth my sanity. Some wars should and could be prevented by simple communication. Wars of the mind are far more expensive than meets the eye. Stress has been linked to cancer. Some wars are not worth fighting. The social wars we fight not only take a toll on us it also burdens those around us. Everyone is not a crusader and not every dispute should cause a war. Life is full of battles dont go making wars avoid them at all cost or at least use every strategy you can to find a peaceful resolution.