Monday, October 29, 2012

Save yourself

This rant is just my opinion I hate to see everyone assume the role of judge jury and executioner as it pertains to everybody but themselves. How easy it is for us to find flaws in others yet even harder to examine our own behavior. I see it daily folks pass judgement on our peers when we have the same issue we just didn't get caught. There is nothing you can say or do to aid another if you afraid to face your own demons. Pray for them not judge them. If you not right ya self you are of no help to them or anybody for that matter. It's better to work on ya self then trying to fix them.

Evolution or the lack there of .....

It's amazing to see evolution take place . As time passes we grow we get stronger and wiser. Some fear evolution but I embrace and promote healthy evolution of all kinds. The part that scares me is negative evolution. For example waiting til you are an adult to wholeheartedly indulge in acts and lifestyles associated with youth. The only thing I want to relive or experience from my past the fact I didn't have any debt and minimal responsibilities. Evolution should grow you and those around you not cause you to revert and lose sense of reality......

Life is .......

Life is a journey not a destination. The journey is unique for each of us. Though our paths may cross somewhere down the line I can't live for you nor you for me. Some of our paths will be the road less traveled while others will have short trips without interruption. The obstacles and road blocks we may face should not be the hight light of the journey. The lesson learned from the experience now that's something to talk about. Every experience has a lesson. This journey will introduce you to many faces and many places. Not all will you remember but others you will never forget. Cherish the good the bad the ugly and the otherwise. Live life for yourself and not based on the expectation of others life is what you make it choices and decisions we make can help our or hinder us along the way. Life is.....

Tuesday, October 9, 2012

It could always be worse

I tend to be negative sometimes when I should be grateful because it could always be worse. Though I don't have it all I have enough. There is always someone doing worse than you so in a sense you should be happy you not in there shoes. As hard times arrive always remember to S.T.O.P. stop think observe and plan the fact you alive is reason to keep fighting besides it could always be worse........

Thursday, October 4, 2012

u never may know

U never may know the effect ya deeds has on the life of another especially if ya intent is bogus. U never know who is watching listening and in some cases mimicing your behaviors and ideals. U never may know how a simple smile or hug may save somebodies life. U never may know who depends on you not for finance or emotion but who simply gains strenght or comfort from you being in there life . Dont be an ass and take out the frustrations of ya life on the ones who love you. U never may know if they will be here to accept that apology........

Friday, September 14, 2012

Contreversy

Contreversy is a tricky game. Some contreversy is healty but contreversy all the time is unhealthy. I go above and beyond to be as low key as possible yet contrversy is a daily occurance for me it seems. Maybe i talk too much love too hard too loyal. Maybe im too outspoken but whatever the case I am sick of it. I mean no harm but i can only be me . I was always to speak up and stand up for any cause i see as just. The reality is that my reality morals and values are of a olden kind . People care only about things that dont matter all good is negated by one bad. I love my people but the hermit life seems more appealing daily never here of hermits facing controversy.

Thursday, September 13, 2012

repetitiveness & redundancy

We have heard several quotes and cliches about repetition. Repetitiveness and redundancy have pros and cons. If it aint broke don't fix it is what they say so I am all about a continuing a successful system or cycle that creates and promotes growth and progress but what about failed systems? Relationships, business ventures, and any other thing that has brought nothing but failure and disgrace why repeat it? Insanity is defined as doing the EXACT same thing over and over again and expecting a different result. Why do we tend to gravitate repeatedly to the things and people that cause us to lose? Do we like losing and being disappointed? It would seem that way as we evaluate ourselves and our behavior over the years repetitiveness and redundancy has hurt us more than it has helped us. Things don't change unless we make them change. You will never know what you truly can be without venturing out and taking chances to change your situation don't let familiarity handicap your mind and limit your success.