Introspection

in·tro·spec·tion noun \ˌin-trə-ˈspek-shən\ : the process of examining your own thoughts or feelings a reflective looking inward : an examination of one's own thoughts and feelings Most often its easy to blame others for what we dislike about ourselves or our situation. Mama didnt do this, or dad never gave me that, my childs parent made me miss out on this and the list can go on and on. I myself was guilty of this type of behavior to for far too long. The o poor me syndrome was the daily way of life. Then one day it got old and I had to do a real evaluation of me and what I needed in order to survive. In this process I found a lot of my ways were flawed and as I was crying o poor me I was actually not doing too bad at all. The better understanding I gained of myself made it harder to blame others. Some of my findings were scary, some where just down right shameful but all were needed to begin my journey of growth....