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Every been in a situation that you dint wanna be in yetyou do ya best to maintain. I am there currently inbone of those. I love my friend but friend you full of shit. I hate the fact that all that was sacred to our friendship is questionable lately but i stay a friend regardless . This new you aint the friendbi know and love . This new you scares mee seems to be so fuking out of character its scary. I know tou to be a boss. I know you to be a strong intelligent god fearing women and always three steps ahead of the competition. This new you behavior is weak to say the least your behaving like the men and women we use to sit and laugh at cause they so lost. Doing what you doing to get to where you going and i see it just dont loose yourself along the way. Love u friend. RANDOM ASS BATMANJUICE BLOG

Am I MY BROTHERS KEEPER ?

When i say brother in this text i am not refereing to biological sibilings. The brother iam refering to is defined as one related to another by common ties or a fellow memeber- ie fraternity or orginzation. The strenght of the black community was unity. The concept wentbwithout saying . Every body was responsible forbthe next. Nobody played for self. Every body was every bodies keeper.so lets asses the keeper part. I took a oath and obligation in my orginazation to be nothing less than my brothers keeper. Keeper in the sense of keeping him within due bounds as i expect them to do for me. I have always been one to help another since early in life . My mentor stresses the fact that the changes and innovations we achieve or obtain or not for us to bask in but to make the road better for the brothers that follow us. If i am my brothers keeper certain things are sacred. Excuse my french but pussy is not more important than my bond to my brother period.No bond other than my kids is bigger than my bond to my brother. The lack of loyality and common courtesy is disgusting at times. People i admired and once wanted to be like in certain aspects now are a joke to me. Being my brothers keeper got me enemies and headaches all the while theey still gaining access and success off simply using my name. To those of you that stay true to ya oath and truly are your brothers keeper i admire and respect ya efforts. I am my brothers keeper but i need to ensure that those i wanna keep are truly my brothers and worthy of being kept. Are you your brothers keeper? THINK ABOUT IT

Pride

1. A sense of one's own proper dignity or value; self-respect.

2. Pleasure or satisfaction taken in an achievement, possession, or association: parental pride.

3. Arrogant or disdainful conduct or treatment; haughtiness.

4.

a. A cause or source of pleasure or satisfaction; the best of a group or class: These soldiers were their country's pride.

b. The most successful or thriving condition; prime: the pride of youth.

5. An excessively high opinion of oneself; conceit.

 

Pride is a double edge sword . Pride can keep you from stooping to levels beneath yourself to prove a point and pride can be the reason you fail. I pride myself in knowing myself and my limitations, but such pride has caused me to miss several opportunities. Where does one draw the line? When does pride reach the point of arrogance or conceit? When does pride reach a sense of foolish? I have no idea to be honest but I say this much pride has just as many ups as it does downs. Take pride in something or be willing to buy every dream you can be sold . Think about it!

Potential

Potential is defined as a latent excellence or ability that may of may not be developed. My question is that who determines or defines what potential actually is? Who sets the bar? Is my potential based on things that have already been done ? Or is potential defined by yourself and the things you hope to achieve? Is there a guideline for potential? Can one simply float by on potential? Potential lives is all of us . It is on us to define and understand what our potential is. If some one else defined what you potential out come will be and you simply shot for that they said you sold yourself short. Potential should be a motivator or a driving force to continue to grow and achieve new heights. Potential has to be harnessed worked with and molded in order for it to benefit you. Potential is nothing but a word without taking the necessary steps to allow it to benefit you. POTENTIAL

A Lost Art

In recent months since july to be exact i have experienced some wild shit in the name of being a friend . I have lost a good friend and made enemies over petty shit. In the name of being a friend i hurt feelings and estranged some life long friends. I look to my elders for guidance and examples for success. My parents still have they same friends from elementary and several associates made along the way. Everybody doesnt have the essential capacity it takes to truly be a friends. Everybody you meet is not a friend. Asssociates are essential they have a role not be confused as friends. The distance provided by associates make them useful. They cool to be around drink hang with drink etc. The mistake i made was expecting others to share my views and morals on friendship. I took those who should have been associates and treated them as friends something that is beyond there scope of thinking . Friend is defined one attached by affection of esteem one who is not hostile one that is of the same nation or group or favoured compainion. Anything other than this i do not call a friend. Friendship is the application of such qualities between two people. Frienship is no longer valued or sacred dont let such an art be lost in your dealings with others. To my bro that i lost thru this recent mess i love you abd hopefully in time you see the reason i didnt intercede cause as ya friend it wasnt my place. FRIENDSHIP A LOST ART

what if

So what if we all played by the same rules? What if we did no wrong and all was well? But this is not reality at least not to me so therefore we can play what if forever. I believe that we all have a purpose a calling and a strong suit. What is good for me may not be for you. What if we all only worried about ourselves? In order to truly grow we must start with self assessment and understand our own fears wants desires etc so heres a what if for all to consider. Whatt if i do things only to become the best me not for attention or fame simply to become the best me ? Stop wasting energy and time and ask yourself what if and you may be shocked what you discover. What if

What to expect from my blog

Social networks are limited in what is and isnt acceptable to post on this blog expect raw emotion and thoughtful insight based on life experiences and the wild  observations inside the mind of K-Ferg. Locally a reputation has been established but through this blog a man can be defined stay tuned sure to be entertaining and full of news you can use .