Saturday, June 23, 2012
I heard it on a movie once and wrote it off a a cool ass line but as the days go by I tend to find new importance to this simple line. "TO TRUST NO ONE IS TO TRUST EVERYONE EQUALLY".At first glimpse it seems cold but in reality its quite possibly the best way to be. You dont have to be rude or mean about it simply listen interact and until said information is consistently confirmed don't buy it. Wealth, love, and the need to be accepted are a few things that tend to cloud our judgement when dealing with people. Not everyone is solid nor shares your point of veiw. Its not really hard to believe all people have an agenda and no two agendas are exactly the same. Misguided trust ends in headache and heart break so at times I wonder why trust at all
Friday, June 22, 2012
For the life of me I have yet to understand how in one breathe you hate a person and the next they get a pass and we have a meal and make peace. If I really hate you a steak aint gon bring peace. Negros get on social networks group me text and in there lil circles and talk cash shit I'm beat his or her ass on sight then bump into one another chat and take club photos as a peace treaty stop the fukn madness dont get me wrong some offense are small enough to forgive and forget but some arent but it raises red flags about what your convo about me when im not around is really like wonder did you set me up or sell me out but I guess it is not for me to make sense of
if there is a man that truly completely understands women man you a awesome dude. I have come to the conclusion that is on task I will never master. For example she said I hate arguing so you leave to avoid the argument but now you ignoring her and not sympathetic to here concerns or she say i like you alot im scared so you let your guards down now you needy and cant share your feelings where is the compromise? Or she say you always want sex you so perverted but the night you chilling and dont put out you either cheating or selfish. Women love to be right but you agree with them and they think you insulting them or blowing them off its a damn shame cant live with them but cant live without them smh
One of the greatest lessons I ever learned in church wasn't from a scripture but just as powerful and relevant. I will never forget it either. Rev said "YOU CAN LEARN SOMETHING FROM ANYONE,EVEN FROM A FOOL EVEN IF THE LESSON IS SIMPLY HOW NOT TO BE A FOOL"! This simple statement has helped me through many situation and also made me acknowledge the role we all have as INFORMAL EDUCATORS and to take such a responsibility serious. You never know who is watching, listening, and mimicing the behavior they see you exhibit. I never want my words and deeds to contribute to the downfall of another. our youth are so impressionable and willing to attach themselves to any cause so why not give them a positive cause to be attached too. I aint talking church groups but people like me and you with real life experiences taking a second to drop a bit of knowledge to a young brother or sister to help them avoid a possibly bad situation. Believe it or not whether we want to accept and embrace it we all play the role of INFORMAL EDUCATOR what type of lessons are you teaching.........
Wednesday, June 20, 2012
The world fears a person with a dream, because to have that dream gives you the ambition to fufill that dream. If you live your life fufilling that dream your going to glow man because there is a magnificence and a moment that comes with fufilling YOUR DREAM that you cant achieve being apart of someone elses -Killer Mike
Tuesday, June 19, 2012
Self-preservation is behavior that ensures the survival of an organism. It is universal among living organisms. Pain and fear are parts of this mechanism. Pain motivates the individual to withdraw from damaging situations, to protect a damaged body part while it heals, and to avoid similar experiences in the future. Most pain resolves promptly once the painful stimulus is removed and the body has healed, but sometimes pain persists despite removal of the stimulus and apparent healing of the body; and sometimes pain arises in the absence of any detectable stimulus, damage or disease. Fear causes the organism to seek safety and may cause a release of adrenaline, which has the effect of increased strength and heightened senses such as hearing, smell, and sight. Self-preservation may also be interpreted figuratively; in regard to the coping mechanisms one needs to prevent emotional trauma from distorting the mind.