Wednesday, March 14, 2012

Monogamy

mo·nog·a·my

[muh-nog-uh-mee] Show IPA
noun
1.
marriage with only one person at a time. Compare bigamy, polygamy.
2.
Zoology . the practice of having only one mate.
3.
the practice of marrying only once during life.
 
 
Monogamy is revered as the way to go. So they say. Monogamy is redundant was a line in a rap song that got me to thinking. The practice of having one mate is ideal but how realistic is it. This is in no way a attempt to justify cheating, pologamy, or being a player. Simply an argument being made from the other side of the spectrum. I tend to get bored very easy. The same thing day in day out will drive me nuts. The same sex, same look, same argument will at some point get old. I believe monogamy can be achieved if both parties evolve at the same rate to remain the object of affection to there mate. If no growth as a unit takes place monogamy is doomed. Monogamy scares me it seems like setting yourself up to be hurt or hurt someone else. Variety is what makes life so much fun if one thing doest work there are several options available to attempt until you find whats best for you. Maybe thats it and the soultion to my issue maybe I havent found everything that works for me in one person maybe one day I will.........

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